Most of us want a long lasting and satisfying relationship with our partner and while there are many different components to having a good relationship, communication is one of the most important. Let’s face it, when we’re not communicating well with our partner we tend to lose that feeling of ‘connectedness’ and then perhaps lose faith that our relationship is secure.

Regular sex is an important part of a healthy adult relationship and often leads to a feeling of emotional ‘connectedness’ with a partner.  Sexual difficulties within a relationship, such as infrequent or unsatisfactory sex, are not uncommon with couples often stating they no longer feel ‘close’ to their partners.

Congratulations on your decision to uphold a life long promise to one another as a couple. Counselling prior to such a big commitment can be very helpful in assisting you to learn various skills that are helpful when more challenging moments arise as your relationship grows and matures.  Learned skills such as communication, fight control and problem solving can be invaluable tools to utilise when difficulties arise such as financial concerns, having children or managing blended families.